

Hi,
thank you for visiting our volunteer page! My name is Beth Nawotka, and I’m the
Outreach Coordinator for Hotdogs for the Homeless. Let me tell you a little
more about our ministry and ways you can help.
Hotdogs
for the Homeless is blessed to have many wonderful volunteers, several who help
on a regular basis, as well as groups that come in and out to do occasional
service work. All are needed and much appreciated.
Every
Sunday at noon volunteers meet to begin making and packaging the hotdog lunches
that will be served to the homeless. We are making between 275 to 300 lunches
right now. Between 1:15 and 1:30 we hit the streets of Oklahoma City to
distribute these to those who are homeless and hungry. We especially look for
the ones we know who are not living in shelters, the ones in tents, cardboard
“houses,” abandoned buildings, sleeping in fields and in old cars.
One
sideline of Hotdogs for the Homeless is a clothing ministry which goes out
every other Sunday in a separate van following Rick, the Hotdog Man. My
husband, Don, and I and our daughters and dedicated volunteers head up this
Clothing Crew which brings out men’s and women’s casual clothing, hygiene kits,
blankets, backpacks, new socks and underwear,
sleeping bags, and hats and coats if it’s winter.
Over
the past several years that we’ve been doing this ministry, we’ve witnessed many
harsh realities of homelessness on the street. Mental illness, drug addiction,
prostitution, domestic violence, and poverty fuel the flame for much of the
suffering we see week after week. Toes and feet are lost to frostbite every
winter when we get a bad freeze. Cracked and bleeding stumps linger throughout
the rest of the year causing these people to limp or take to the streets in
wheel chairs. People bathe in the river and in water that collects off the roof
tops of abandoned buildings. They keep warm in makeshift tents and huts made
out of old mattresses, cardboard boxes, and tarp. Their faces show complete
loss of self-worth and hope. Too many of them live this way because they truly
believe this is all they can do and no other solution will work for them.
As
Rick says again and again, this ministry really isn’t just about the hotdog. The
hotdog lunch is our vehicle to meet them face to face and get to know them
personally and gain their trust week after week by being there consistently for
them. The homeless may have problems, but they are people with hearts and
feelings just like you and me. They just need someone to listen and care. When
we bring clothing and get to know their special needs and sizes, they talk to
us and open up to us about their inner struggles and fears.
We
earn their trust and we start to understand what they need the most so we can
help them get into rehabs, reconnect them with family members, get them into
jobs, medical care, and housing. Many times it takes numerous attempts at rehab
before it finally works. Sometimes it doesn’t work and they go straight back to
the street. But we can’t judge or give up on them. They hide from us in
embarrassment at first, before they realize that we aren’t going to give up on
them. Our biggest success story is a former prostitute that we are
rehabilitating that we put into drug rehab twice. The last time was her 8th
shot at rehab. At the time of this writing she has been off the street,
working, connected with her family, and drug free for almost a year and a half.
Isn’t God great?
Even
when we see the most pitiful situations, like the lady who lived in her
wheelchair for months and months on end and had sores that would ooze and bugs
crawling on her, and we know we could do
something to help, we’ve learned that we can’t do anything unless they are
ready and willing. But over time they know they can count on us and, out of the
blue, when they hit their individual bottoms, they know they can count on us to
try to help them.
When it comes to helping people we meet
through this ministry, we have found that the key to what we are doing comes
with making the right connections between those in need with those who have
excess. Most people want to help and are very generous once they hear what we
are doing and learn specific ways they can help. It has been heartwarming to
see the generous hearts that are opening up to help with this project. People
are going through their closets and finding clothes and shoes they aren’t
wearing. Not only does it help the needy, but it helps clear space at home as
well!
Our
outreach has many needs. To help us continue serving the hotdog lunches (which
consist of hotdogs, chips, bottled water, a packaged snack, and ketchup and
mustard packets) we accept monetary donations to help keep this going.
We
also use donations to help with bus tickets to rehabs, occasional motel rooms
for sick or beaten up homeless people we find, and to help in the process of
rehabilitation of ones we work with.
Another
need is for new men’s and women’s socks and underwear of all sizes. The
Clothing Crew is distributing approximately 50 pair a week when we take out the
clothing. Right now it has been coming out of their personal pockets, but
perhaps there is a source somewhere that can help with this. (Could your
school, church, or business do a sock or underwear drive for us? The same is
true with men’s jeans. We are so desperate for these!)
Hygiene
kits are another item our ministry makes and distributes. It is hard to bathe
when you are homeless. People save their small soaps and shampoos for us when
they travel and we have groups make little kits in Ziplock bags. The two most
needed items we seek for donations here is for toothbrushes and toothpaste.
Lunch
sacks are decorated by students with encouraging messages. This is another
simple service project that helps us a lot and the homeless really appreciate.
Also, to make our lunch-making process go faster, we have groups pre-wrap the
ketchup and mustard packets in napkins for us.



We
give presentations regularly to schools, churches, civic organizations, youth
camps, and teacher groups to bring awareness to the plight of homelessness and
specific ways people can help. My daughter, Sarah, does an annual city-wide
backpack drive and sends out letters to schools asking students to donate their
used backpacks at the end of the school year to help the homeless. Every spring
she is invited into the schools to talk to students about homelessness, our
ministry, and brings awareness to the problems resulting from drug addictions.
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The best part of helping in this ministry is being able to
connect with people who need us. Believing that God is in control of the
connections we make, we stand in awe of the circumstances of opportunity He
places us in each week. *Names have been changed
here for privacy. “Tanya’s” Story
We are rehabilitating a former prostitute (shown on far left) who was enslaved by her drug addiction to
crack cocaine and was living in a cardboard house under a tree in Oklahoma
City. She had been abused as a child and throughout her teenage years. As a
result of this her anger turned to self hatred and self destruction. In the
past two years or so we have helped her by gaining her trust, getting her
into rehab, getting her off the street into a home, and reconnecting her with
her family. She has been drug-free for almost a year and a half at the time
of this writing and working two jobs to support herself and her two children.
We continue to give her moral encouragement, guidance, and support every week
to help her keep focused, and she is doing great. Praise God! “Brandy’s” Story Two weeks after we began helping Rick and Susan, a woman came
to us on the sidewalk and asked for lunches for herself and her three young
sons. As we talked with her she revealed that they had been homeless and
sleeping in the City Rescue Mission for the last eight months. The kids’
daddy was in prison and, before going to the mission, she had been living
with her brother who is a substance abuser and physically abused her and her
children. She told us that an agency in the area was offering her a
low-income apartment to live in, but she had two days left to prove that she
would have support in finding beds for everyone, kitchen supplies, food, and
the basics to set up her new household. With no family or friends in the area
to rely on, and hardly any belongings of their own, she turned to Rick for
help. Within twenty-four hours and through a chain reaction of phone
calls and divine coordination, connections began to click together and soon
we were able to completely furnish the apartment, stock their refrigerator
and pantry with groceries, and move this family into their new home. We continue our contact and new friendship with this family. A
church generously adopted them and helped them out with groceries and gas for
her vehicle until she could get on her feet. Most of all, we gave them
support as they transitioned into living on their own after being homeless so
long. The most beautiful thing we
witnessed, though, is how the generosity we have shared with this
family is now being passed on by them to others in need. Their family bonded
with several other homeless families that still live in the rescue mission.
Others have been able to move into apartments like they have. They know the
needs of these people and they share what they have with them. Many times I
have called over to her home and found her fixing dinner for another family
in the mission. She says they long for home-cooked meals there and she’ll
never forget what it feels like not to have this luxury.
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Lord, no one is a stranger to You and no one is ever far
from Your loving care. In Your kindness watch over refugees, exiles and
the homeless, those separated from their loved ones, young people who are
lost, and those who have left or run away from home. Protect those who are without shelter and
on the streets. Bring them back safely to the place where they long to
be. Help us always to show Your kindness to strangers and to those in
need. Amen |
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While we never push
people to pray with us and we really try to stay away from being preachy to
the people we meet on the streets because we believe actions speak louder
than words, it is a great privilege when we have the opportunity to pray with
them. When we are holding hands and eyes are closed, the warmth and spirit of
the Lord present with us is breathtaking. Their prayers are often for safety
and hope for better times, hope for strength to pull out of their addictions
and troubles that pull them down. One time a man asked
us through tears to pray for his fiancé who he had rushed to the hospital
emergency room in a shopping cart the night before when he found her almost
dead from huffing. Another time we found several individuals who had been
beaten and robbed of their belongings when they were sleeping. There have
also been times when we have held memorial services for homeless who have died
and they have no one else to pray for them except for their friends on the
street. We hold these services in the field near the city streets and the
homeless come and pray together. We pray for their protection and the courage
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From: Chris Engel Rick
- thank you for allowing me to help you and Susan last Sunday. You opened
my eyes to Christ's abundant love through your ministry. In keeping with
your "H" theme with Hotdogs for the Homeless, I wanted to share
with you
what I witnessed on Sunday. Help -
you bring Help not only in food, but in financial assistance to actually
help people get off the streets. I witnessed this in the two bus tickets
to Ft. Worth Texas that you purchased for Summer and James. You even
made a phone call to her aunt to pick them up and allow them to stay at her
house until they can find work. Hope -
I witnessed you giving many of these people some real sense of Hope through
not only your food, but your offering of assistance in clothing, shoes
and general needs that some cannot even find at the shelters. Hugs - so many of these people receive and offer hugs from you. Handshakes -
those that aren't the "huggy" type will offer and accept your friendship
through a simple handshake. Hospitality - your kindness and weekly hospitality is present. Happiness - through your constant smile and encouragement, many showed a genuine
happiness in a difficult time; and the Heart of Christ - most importantly, you offer Christ's goodness and blessings.
I witnessed this in the spontaneous prayer offered up by one of your
"regulars". How beautiful it was to see you offer God's blessings
to so
many in need. Thank
you for letting me tag along. May God continue to bless you and your family
and your ministry. I look forward to helping you again. Peace! Your
Brother in Christ - Chris
Engel |
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HOTDOGS Introduction October 10. 2004 Powerful! Apparently, Rick had challenged Robert with getting
off the street. Rick promised Robert that if he would get off the street,
Rick would ensure that he would have furniture, some cash, a cell phone, and
in general be a support system to Robert. Robert did get a place to stay and
a job, and Rick has been as good as his word. When Rick describes this chain of
events, I hear a sense of wonder in his voice. Then, he reiterates, It’s not
about the hotdogs.” October 17. 2004 But, Rick visited with Ray for a good while and to me this
personified the ministry that Hotdogs for the Homeless is really all about.
If all it accomplished was feeding one lonely soul, on a chilly drizzly day,
in downtown Oklahoma City it would be enough. November 7. 2004 November 28. 2004 Conclusion References; Combs, Arthur W.; & Gonzalez, David M.. 1990. Helping
Relationships. Allyn and Bacon, Boston. |